What might get lost in the conversation about ‘gender-affirming’ treatment in children is the fact that there isn’t a way to fully detransition if mastectomies or castrations are performed, or if puberty blockers and hormones are given for a certain amount of time… Kiera Bell is brave to speak out about her experience with ‘embarking on the devastating experiment of puberty blockers’ (her words)… since there is an exponentially growing number of children identifying as non-binary and those who regret their ‘decisions,’ I would think adults owe it to them to be the gatekeepers against unethical or ignorant doctors performing harmful and irreversible surgeries on them…
Canaries in the Coal Mine
Why are doctors allowed to do this to people? I’m guessing we don’t have access to data confirming how many people go through these surgeries without complications. I regret that any concerns about the effects of these bold new surgeries will be interpreted as transphobia. The underlying thought I’m having about this is that the people undergoing these surgeries are not capable of giving informed consent.
‘Gender-Affirming’ Surgeries for Children?
I was quite surprised to learn that there are doctors performing ‘gender-affirming’ double mastectomies on children as young as 12…. Considering the fact that there is currently a Reddit group with more than 22,000 detransitioners, and others cropping up all the time, maybe we should start questioning what is truly meant by ‘gender-affirming care.’ Such procedures as double-mastectomies are irreversible, and at the very least render the child incapable of ever being a mother who breastfeeds…
I do not believe someone that young can give informed consent on something so dramatic. It is too easy to get the confusion and disorientation of adolescence confused with gender dysphoria, and given that gender dysphoria is a feeling of being unhappy with your current body, what evidence do we have that removing parts will increase sense of well-being? Also, if gender is a social construct, then why would the treatment not be psychological? Esp since sudden onset dysphoria and gender fluidity is all part of the puzzle, and not to be predicted, so to go to great lengths to capture the ‘boy’ body or ‘girl’ body to ‘align with one’s gender’ is intellectually incoherent. The child could without prediction change their mind to identify with some other body form anytime after the surgery… Which is, I guess why we’re seeing an ever increasing number of detransitioner groups. I believe the detransitioners ought to be treated as canaries in the coal mine. Let us discover what went wrong for them so as not to repeat any more surgeries that will leave children feeling the devastating regret of so many of these young detransitioners.
It made sense to me when trans adults would say they felt like they were meant to be the opposite sex. I could understand that reasoning… But when more and more genders are being created, or realized, that are supposedly not aligned with sex at all, then how could a sex-change surgery ever alleviate the gender dysphoria? It doesn’t make sense to be saying gender and sex are unrelated, yet ‘gender-affirming’ surgeries are being performed to align the patient with their gender, which is not related to the shape or characteristics of the body? Anyway, I don’t think I’m the only one confused as to what the doctors are purporting to do in these these ever-increasing reckless operations.
Transition Regret
I think voices like hers are making me want to start initiating depoliticized conversations about the best way to help teenagers who express gender dysphoria. We certainly don’t want to end up harming them with unnecessary, or worse, irreversible and damaging medical treatments. The detransitioner community seems to be growing by the day, and it is heartbreaking to hear their stories.
Mastectomies for Children?
I didn’t realize there are sex change surgeries being done on girls as young as 13 years old 😞. I thought we protected children from dramatic and medically unnecessary experimental surgeries, esp when there is no longterm data that proves that the operations and procedures are ‘curing’ gender dysphoria in adolescents, or that these procedures justify all the ongoing and serious medical problems that crop up as a result…
Puberty Blockers
Yikes! I vaguely recall reading about some class-action lawsuit filed against Lupron pharmaceuticals, after it was used to treat endometriosis…
Choking
Yesterday I was talking on the phone with a beloved friend, when a chuckle and coffee sip fused to almost kill me. A seeming innocuous incident suddenly jettisoned me into spasmodic wheezing. This convulsive response quickly depleting all my oxygen within seconds. A sort of paralysis replaced the wheeze, as I began suffocating. The room seemed to darken, and I felt myself on the verge of losing consciousness… a quiet, detached voice informed me, “you are going to die now.”
Did they watch the trial?
On one hand, the activist media for the progressive movement is encouraging, via gender discussion, what they perceive as civil liberties: the right to self identify as a woman (or man) and having a legal right to formerly womens only or mens only spaces. Asd
In a contradictory way, however, mainstream news ontlets were blazoned with headlines about the blow to ‘survivors of domestic abuse.’ I could only surmise that they either did not watch the trial, or they are deceptively ignoring all allegations made by Johnny Depp and corroborated by AH, and medical records of physical evidence not just hearsay.
I’d like to give benefit to the doubt; that this propaganda comes from lazy, unethical journalists who have no problem spreading unresearched biases. And I do think an editor could never tease out how much of it is just this… But the more sinister interpretation I’m having is that media outlet activists for progressive movements do truly believe that power imbalances can only be corrected if underserved demographic groups form alliances and push back in punitive and retaliatory means, as a collective. This means that they justify sacrificing innocent victims (in the case of JD, whether or not he did the physical abuses she alleges is irrelevant to his well-being, as well as whether or not she instigated every physical altercation, which her self testimony clearly admits in at least many occasions. Because the trial was a symbolic fight against men who violate already established laws against physical abuse, and victimize women
Of course one always realizes that media outlets cannot be entirely free of biases, but it has been only recently that I have begun to realize the depth of these biases and the reckless way that journalists will forgo the facts to tow the party line for whatever company has employed them. I remember when I first noticed cognitive dissonance from my favored news outlets…it would seem they’d be happy about the wrong thing, or were falsely throwing shade on various politicians based on nothing… well anyway, I could write an entire article about how I came to realize this. But for now let me tell you it was not fun to realize how indoctrinating our news sources have become, preventing me from understanding the world well enough to make ethical decisions around politicians I want representing me.
These mainstream outlets who claimed to be ‘trusted’ only later proving not to deserve that trust. Outlets which I had depended for correct information my entire life, are starting or have been, promoting misinformation, probably in the name of the good cause they themselves would ethically justify. The far left belief is that ‘power’ is unevenly distributed between ‘men’ and ‘women.’ The literal people such as myself are left wondering how that divide is defined by this ideology, though, when these same activists are advocating that gender is whatever one wants it to mean so they can’t define what a woman is, since it is up to each person to decide if they want to identify as a woman.
Ok, so back to the trial and many major news outlets, from whom I used to ‘trust’ to provide me with reliable news, and btw not to meander farther, but this mistrust started festering years ago when one of my former favorite newscasters seemed furious that Trump wanted to pull out of Afghanistan. I thought I was on the ‘bring our troops home!’ Side! Then there was the stripper he had paid not to tell the world about their couple encounters. But I think to his benefit, her testimony made him seem like their sex was more than consensual, considering the second date when she removed his hand from her knee and they just sat there watching tv… but that stuff was mere bleep on the radar compared to the disconnect I saw from the media when they started hiding stories involving black people getting killed by protesters, or underserved communities getting bludgeoned by ‘fiery but mostly peaceful protests, leaving elderly home bound residents shattered with the knowledge their neighborhood has been destroyed, and worried about how they will get their supplies…
Ok, back to the trial!
#believeallpotatoes
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Potatoes lie less than people:) we can all agree on that at least.